Let’s Talk Woman to Woman for a Moment

Can I talk to you woman to woman for a moment?

bladder leakage
I like to be prepared. I am a planner. One thing that I have learned, ever since I became pregnant with my first child was that no matter how planned or prepared you are, there will always be surprises and unexpected moments that occur.

One of the surprises that I had when I was pregnant with my son (my second child) was the pressure on my bladder that I had never experienced before, at least not to that extreme. There were some steps that I would take and I had to squeeze my insides with everything I had in order to attempt to not have any light bladder leakage (LBL). And sometimes, an unexpected cough, sneeze or move would happen and I wouldn’t be able to squeeze hard enough and there would be a surprise.

Have you ever experienced this? Do you know that feeling that I’m talking about?

If I were to pass along some advice to pregnant woman, it would be to always be prepared for these unexpected leaks. Just because you are pregnant and won’t have your period doesn’t mean that other unexpected leaks may not occur.

One way that you can be prepared is to carry some Poise Thin-Shape Pads with you. This way, when you have that unexpected cough, giggle, sneeze or movement that results in LBL, you are prepared for the occasion.

Life is full of surprises, but some of them, we can plan ahead so that we aren’t fully caught off guard.

If you experienced or are experiencing light bladder leakage, you are definitely NOT alone!


1 in 3 women experience LBL and over 50% use feminine care products (aka: period pads) to manage their LBL. There is a different alternative out there that offer superior absorption and more effective odour neutralization benefits.


Incontinence experienced during pregnancy is usually stress incontinence; which is the involuntary loss of urine caused by increased pressure on the bladder.

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189 Responses to Let’s Talk Woman to Woman for a Moment

  1. Carol Denny says:

    Sometime when I cough I leek a little.

  2. Melinda Jana says:

    I find it tends to happen when I have a really loud sneeze or laugh way too hard

  3. fossie55 says:

    I can definitely relate to this when I was pregrant and now more and more as I am getting older. I am really bad when I sneeze,
    Florence C

  4. Judy Cowan says:

    I know my sister deals a lot with this issue as she is getting older, will have to tell her about the poise pads. It is great that they are coming out with better products to deal with this issue and that it is being discussed more. I have an ostomy because I lost my bladder due to a birth defect so not something I will have to deal with.

  5. Lynda Cook says:

    After having two kids and a hysterectomy it gets a lot worse, especially when you sneeze or cough!!

  6. salexis says:

    A mother of two… so yup, I can definitely relate! It’s just not the same down there after having babies!!!

  7. Jan says:

    Not yet, but my sister does so … maybe yet another thing to look forward to.

  8. Sunshine g says:

    You never truly get your body back – but it’s still worth it!

  9. Lushka Smith says:

    Happens sometimes when I laugh really hard.

  10. Angela September says:

    ummm yes … i think i was afraid to laugh or sneeze for 9 months! lol

  11. Valerie Mallette says:

    It can sometimes happen when I sneeze or laugh too hard.

  12. elizamatt says:

    Thankfully I don’t have this problem yet but no doubt I will in the not too distant future.

  13. pinksuzanne says:

    I have some friends who deal with this LBL but I have never had any issues myself.

  14. Robyn B. says:

    I do, it usually happens when I sneeze.

  15. Jennifer Alger Morse says:

    Sure can! But would prefer not to elaborate 😉

  16. Cheryl Grandy says:

    I don’t remember much of a problem when I was pregnant, but I have it now.

  17. Tricia Hope says:

    I am on diuretic and it is a whole new problem

  18. I sometimes get leakage when I do high impact aerobics.

  19. Debbie Bashford says:

    sometimes I almost don’t make it to the bathroom without actually piddling a little and no warning. Geesh if I a least knew I had to go I would have a fighting chance, but it just hits me

  20. Erika Letson says:

    After having four children, I can definitely relate to this post! Especially when coughing hard and sneezing.

  21. kathy downey says:

    I almost don’t make it to the bathroom without actually wetting myself a little and with no warning,living with MS my bladder is not as strong as it use to be

  22. ginette4 says:

    I have to be careful when I sneeze

  23. Sometimes when I have a really bad cold and it settles in my chest, I get coughing fits. They suck.

  24. lynnclayton says:

    AFTER CHILDBIRTH I CAN SO RELATE

  25. ivy pluchinsky says:

    I have to be careful when i sneeze sometimes

  26. UglyMummy says:

    near the end of my pregnancy i would wear a liner all the time just in case

  27. Belinda McNabb says:

    Since I had my son (sixteen years ago) it happens when i laugh to hard and sometimes when I sneese

  28. Cheryl says:

    I have not yet but I am sure my time is coming!! 🙁

  29. annet says:

    I do suffer from LBL and have for over 10 years now! When I laugh or sneeze or wait too long to go to the bathroom, I’m in trouble!

  30. Shari D says:

    When I was pregnant with my youngest son he would lay on my bladder at night and I was up and down to the bathroom all night.

  31. Tainan Lu says:

    my sister does

  32. lisa bolduc says:

    I did when I was pregnant. Lbl runs in my family. My mom had 2 surgeries trying to fix her bladder becuase of it

  33. Jennifer Odom says:

    I agree- every pregnancy is different and comes with a variety of surprises!

  34. Becky Best says:

    I can relate, oh the joys of pregnancy! 🙂

  35. Joni W says:

    I havee to go it seems every half hour……

  36. Jenness Mills says:

    I did not sleep the last 2 months of my pregnancy because of the pressure on my bladder. Thankfully no major accidents!

  37. Juliee Fitze says:

    I have to be sure to not drink much before going on a trip.Sometimes it hard to hold it.

  38. Tracydeanne says:

    The laughing thing..ugh.

  39. zahra premji says:

    Not yet, and I hope not to in the future either but at least I am informed now

  40. Casey Lynn says:

    coughing and sneezing while pregnant was tourture lol

  41. Wendy Hutton says:

    coughing and sneezing get me, I have had bladder leakage for about 20 years do to a back injury and nerve damage, you learn to watch every sudden movement and have to wear protection 24/7, this hit me at the age of 30 so its been a long while but you learn to live with it and am always on the lookout for a bathroom

  42. Tammy B says:

    I can definitely relate, I hate to go places, it isn’t always light. cough, sneeze laugh, oops… I am so afraid that when I am out I will have an embarrassing leak, even though protected. I have had medication and it only helps a little. It doesn’t even matter if I have just used the bathroom, if i cough, I pee then I have to run… I am glad I am not alone

  43. Tricia Cooper says:

    I had issues when I was pregnant, but not really since then. Good to know about the Poise products.

  44. karla says:

    That happens when I laughs too much sometimes 😉

  45. Debbie Campbell says:

    I notice it a little since I am getting older!

  46. Glogirl3 says:

    Thankfully I haven’t experienced LBL and hopefully it stays that way!

  47. Dianne says:

    I remember this when I was pregnant. All my children were large babies and that last few weeks I did not want to be away from a bathroom long.

  48. Iulia Zwicker says:

    Ugh!! I hate LBL – I have experienced it, and even though it’s slight, it’s frustrating! I have used Poise liners in the past, and it was much better than a period pad!

  49. dewinner says:

    I haven’t experienced LBL but as I age I worry about it since my mom had it only when she exerted herself, don’t want it either

  50. Sara Lindgren says:

    I have occasional lbl. But I have been lucky enough to not require panty liners

  51. @those2girls says:

    Sneezing is the worstt

  52. Carole Dube says:

    I sometimes get leakage when I sneeze!

  53. Darwin says:

    My wife had experienced LBL when she was pregnant and afterwards. She use to be really be embarrassed by it. She use to require liners, but she doesn’t anymore.

  54. jonnieh says:

    I can’t believe I’m admitting this but when I was pregnant with my first baby, one night my husband and I were laying in bed watching TV and my husband made a joke that made me burst out laughing. Well, my laughter wasn’t the only thing that burst out…I peed all over the bed!

  55. Andi says:

    After having 4 kids,I had during pregnancy,now.

  56. Heidi P says:

    different once you have kids, but got to do those keegel exercises

  57. Silvia D says:

    yes, during pregnacy and very occasionally now, mostly if a sneeze or hard laughing!

  58. Jennifer P. says:

    I didn’t have LBL after my first child, but I did for a little while after my second (and while I was pregnant the second time around too).

  59. Nena Sinclair says:

    After having my 3rd child and several abdominal surgeries, I’ve had trouble with LBL.

  60. Donnas says:

    I didn’t have any LBL when I was pregnant, but now that I’m older I do find that sometimes I do when I sneeze or cough.

  61. Betty Spry says:

    I find as I get older LBL is becoming more of an issue. having a product to help us is major

  62. Heidi C. says:

    I have not had issues with bladder leakage but my mom has had a lot ever since she had a hysterectomy many years ago. She has had corrective surgery which has helped but still when she laughs sometimes…

  63. tanyab79 says:

    Having a real good laughing fit can bring on unwanted fluids.

  64. Erin says:

    I still have leaks when exercising sometimes, since my daughter was born.

  65. Ashleigh Swerdfeger says:

    I definitely experienced this while pregnant. It’s the worst. Also, I feel like I have to go more often anyay since having two kids 🙂

  66. Gillian Morgan says:

    The only time I get leakage is when I get a really bad cough from a cold or flu.

  67. Lori Lewis says:

    I experienced giggle incontinence as a child but luckily outgrew it. After 5 kids I am a kegel master and haven’t had LBL issues but will continue to do them and hope for the best!

  68. Jenny Major says:

    i experience every so often when i laugh a lot

  69. Missycat11 says:

    Yes I can relate. I always cross my legs before I sneeze..

  70. Vivian Dionne says:

    If I laugh too hard, it will happen!

  71. Wanda Bergman says:

    I do know a couple of ladies with this problem, but no problems personally.

  72. Wanda Bergman says:

    I do know a couple of ladies with this problem, but no problems personally.

  73. Natalie says:

    I work with some patients with this problem, but it has not affected my family personally yet.

  74. dcb says:

    I personally don’t have this problem and to my knowledge no one I know does.

  75. Pam Wood Humphrey says:

    I just find that as I am getting older, my bladder is just not the same.

  76. Lisa Knox Neutel says:

    yes if i cough or sneeze i can pee a little .. the joys of having children

  77. Theresa Black says:

    I can! It happens every time I sneeze now that I’m older.

  78. SeanM says:

    Yes, we have this problem here

  79. Nicole Leger says:

    I’ve never experienced this after having my baby but I’ve researched it and have contacts to help out with it if it does happen.

  80. Nicole Leger says:

    I’ve never experienced this after having my baby but I’ve researched it and have contacts to help out with it if it does happen.

  81. caroline m. says:

    I certainly had my fair share of “bad” surprises when I was pregnant with my daughter, especially when I laughed

  82. Lori Jackson says:

    Yes I know the feeling! A heavy sneeze, cough or even a belly ripping laugh can set me off.

  83. Melissa Finn says:

    Oh yes I can relate. I have had 2 kids!

  84. Darlene Schuller says:

    I’ve had 5 children, and over 40. I laugh, sneeze, cough.. just a bit to hard… sometimes I don’t need to do it hard, if I have to already go… then it’s a givin’ we’re leakin! ugh

  85. Branka says:

    I can so relate! I’ve only had one child and it all fell apart by the time I was 28. I was so embarrassed when I discovered my issue. I was showing the neighborhood kids how to cross over hands while skipping rope. Need I say more?? Now I don’t go anywhere without my Poise

  86. Branka says:

    I can so relate! I’ve only had one child and it all fell apart by the time I was 28. I was so embarrassed when I discovered my issue. I was showing the neighborhood kids how to cross over hands while skipping rope. Need I say more?? Now I don’t go anywhere without my Poise

  87. Kelly Young says:

    I can relate I have cervical cancer and need to use poise daily great article

  88. Maria Katie says:

    I’m scared of every sneeze !

  89. Astrogal says:

    Ever since I had my daughter (almost 10 years ago!) I do experience some minor leakage sometimes when sneezing, coughing, laughing…(Sarai)

  90. Elva Roberts says:

    I remember going constantly to the bathroom during my last two months of Pregnancy. I used to joke that I should make my bed in the bathtub so I wouldn’t have so far to go–and wishing it was that easy.

  91. Aimée Robison says:

    If I laugh too hard, I have to be worried about minor leakage *blush*

  92. New Mom New Life says:

    i had a moment after i was recovering from delivering my 1st son! @reinventyourday

  93. New Mom New Life says:

    i had a moment after i was recovering from delivering my 1st son! @reinventyourday

  94. aly3360 says:

    I’ve never been pregnant, but have experienced LBL. I’m nervous for it to get worse once I do have children.

  95. voncorvus says:

    It was quite the unsuspended surprise during a crazy sneezing fit.

  96. Amy says:

    I have had 5 kids and now jumping on the trampoline is not a good idea any more.

  97. Ashley says:

    Sometimes sneezing!

  98. Ashley says:

    Sometimes sneezing!

  99. Erica says:

    I have had 2 children by C-section and haven’t had a leakage problem thus far….however my friend had 4 children naturally and has had to stop running and is very careful when she laughs!!!

  100. Erica says:

    I have had 2 children by C-section and haven’t had a leakage problem thus far….however my friend had 4 children naturally and has had to stop running and is very careful when she laughs!!!

  101. sarah stickney says:

    i experienced it while i was pregnant

  102. Are says:

    Hasn’t happened to me yet!

  103. blessedta says:

    Good to know..something to watch out for

  104. teeslee says:

    Good to know that this is common.

  105. teeslee says:

    Good to know that this is common.

  106. sibley_h says:

    Yes, I can definitely relate.

  107. Party Elle says:

    we will all be able to relate, eventually, so it’s good to be informed about the topic!

  108. Brenda Witherspoon-Bedard says:

    I experienced it while pregnant

  109. Rebby Roberts says:

    My girlfriend who was recently pregnant is experiencing some leakage when she sneezes or laughs. We joke about it!

  110. Alea Elliott says:

    Yep, I can relate

  111. Krista Miller says:

    Yes this was a common occurance when I was pregnant with both my kids, especially when I had to cough. Just add it to the list of awful things us women go through when we’re expecting!

  112. Nicolthe pickle says:

    I can relate….never going on a trampoline again. 😛

  113. erin2470 says:

    My sister has this problem, I feel so bad for her, I wish more could be done.

  114. Since I was pregnant with triplets, my bladder moved to the other side of my body so it was very uncomfortable, however, I never had incontinence issues. I know that it’s very likely with age and I’ll deal with it when/if it happens. Great that people can talk about it opening nowadays.

    Besos, Sarah
    Journeys of The Zoo

  115. Mel says:

    I experienced bladder issues when I was pregnant.

  116. cheryl hodgkins says:

    Yes unfortunately I can relate especially if I run or sneeze…wouldn’t dream of attempting to skip rope with grandkids now

  117. Wanda Tracey says:

    This is a problem that I could relate to because it’s a very uncomfortable feeling like having a full bladder that feels like something very heavy is sitting on it.I found it hard to control if I sneezed or coughed too hard.Thank heavens for products like poise.

  118. Dayna Wilson says:

    I’ve been really lucky in that I haven’t experienced any bladder leakage when not pregnant… but I do have one miserable story to relate from my second pregnancy! I am cursed with miserable morning sickness, all 3 of my pregnancies have been this way. At one point when I was pregnant with my daughter, I remember kneeling in front of the toilet, violently throwing up… when my bladder just let go and I peed myself at the same time. It was so, so humiliating. It’s funny looking back on it, but at the time I was just miserable.

  119. angela mitchell says:

    I have a mild problem with this since having kids. When I sneeze I often leak a little or if I really have to go and I tough water — I hate that one!!

  120. Em Vee says:

    omg i was quite embarrassed when it happened to me when i would sneeze or laugh really hard. i found out months later that it does happen to other people as well.

  121. Sabrina Tong says:

    I haven’t really had an LBL issue yet but I’m sure it’s coming.

  122. Sabrina Tong says:

    I haven’t really had an LBL issue yet but I’m sure it’s coming.

  123. Andrea Amy says:

    I have had 5 children, so yes I can relate. Coughing is not good, and neither is sneezing. I wear liners daily just in case lol

  124. Andrea Amy says:

    I have had 5 children, so yes I can relate. Coughing is not good, and neither is sneezing. I wear liners daily just in case lol

  125. Mrs Mama Knights says:

    I’ve been on the lookout for a waterproof mattress cover. The one for a double bed is sold at at both Walmarts near us. I’ve had a close call with some morning sneezes. My best friend says It’s only a matter of time.

  126. Joanne Saunders says:

    Yes, I can relate to some things.

  127. flowerchild23 says:

    I have had two children and I have not experienced this.

  128. Sweet Panda says:

    Yes, I can relate to some of them after I gave birth to my second kids but it just occurred sometimes and not too serious

  129. lori b says:

    yes i can relate, i still have issues

  130. Tammy Dalley says:

    Yeah i can relate to a few things

  131. Jen says:

    I can relate!

  132. Ashley says:

    Sneezing is scary

  133. Karine says:

    I felt those moments a few times in my life – it’s embarassing!

  134. Lee-Ann says:

    I can totally relate..I was always scared to laugh or sneeze

  135. Bethany Gallinger says:

    Fortunately, I haven’t experienced this. Poise would definitely be necessary if I did!

  136. Manitoba Meg says:

    I am fortunate to have never experienced this. Pregnancy was bad enough already!

  137. JustPlainSuzi says:

    I’m happy to say that I can’t relate to this though I sympathize for those who can!

  138. Can’t relate but thank you for sharing your story & reading others

  139. Wendy Jensen says:

    I also had this post pregnancy problem but I believe it helped by laying on the bed and doing leg raises (both at the same time together) to help strengthen the required muscles to prevent this problem.

  140. Tooth Fairy says:

    Sneezing during pregnancy is problematic for sure!

  141. cheryl hodgkins says:

    Laughing was an issue for me when I was pregnant, along with sneezing, coughing and running

  142. Nancy T says:

    Unfortunately it doesn’t always end when your pregnancy is finished. 🙁

  143. billiondollarprincesss says:

    I think if this has not happened to you yet, it will. Happens to everyone!

  144. mommakoala says:

    Try menopause. My body has changed. My bladder is smaller, urgency, and oh those sneezes!!
    (Debbie W)

  145. Melissa Bye says:

    I still have that issue, and my daughter is almost 5!!

  146. Kristine E says:

    Yes after I had babies

  147. Amanda says:

    Yes, I can.

  148. Cassie Fancy says:

    unfortunately I also had the unexpected problem as well :/

  149. Cassie Fancy says:

    unfortunately I also had the unexpected problem as well :/

  150. favgreen says:

    My mother has this issue and has discussed medical options. I notice more urgency as I get older…
    via Rhonda W G.

  151. Jolie says:

    Totally relate & I still experience it, even though my daughters are older now.

  152. Steph BKN says:

    Since having my 2nd child, its something that happens, I always carry a thin liner for protection 😉

  153. shirley li says:

    yes after i had kids (:

  154. Lisa Smith says:

    lol I sneeze very carefully

  155. L H says:

    I’ve had to wear liners after my kids just to be on the safe side.

  156. PrairiePearl says:

    Oh, yes it is an ongoing problem.

  157. PrairiePearl says:

    Oh, yes it is an ongoing problem.

  158. SueSueper says:

    I can relate, wish I had control 100% of the time. That wont happen.

  159. Nicole Bonito says:

    I can relate! I learned the hard way about trampolines!

  160. Kristine E says:

    Yes I had issues after I had a baby

  161. Sabrina Tong says:

    Not yet but I’m sure it’s coming.

  162. David Gibb says:

    yes it is an ongoing problem

  163. David Gibb says:

    yes it is an ongoing problem

  164. BaileyDexter says:

    I never did had this one, yet, but thanks for the post!

  165. Jennpup says:

    Cough, sneeze, jump, dance, walking the dog (jogging – no way). I can relate and would love to try Poise!

  166. Dee Schwark says:

    I can so relate…

  167. Dee Schwark says:

    I can so relate…

  168. cathy Kenny says:

    This is very interesting as I have yet to have this issue. Thanks for this knowledgeable information.

  169. missbobloblaw says:

    Uh. Yeah. I can relate….

  170. missbobloblaw says:

    Uh. Yeah. I can relate….

  171. Stephanie La Plante says:

    My mom said she had problems while pregnant. She also said it was worth it because the good outweighed it all.

  172. Stephanie La Plante says:

    My mom said she had problems while pregnant. She also said it was worth it because the good outweighed it all.

  173. Heidi P says:

    There are those days liners are used but not that often, but glad to keep some on hand

  174. Rene says:

    Since having my kids, I definitely need to ensure an empty bladder if I am going to run!

  175. Terri says:

    Unfortunately, I can relate..UGH!

  176. Natalie says:

    no more avoiding trampolines!

  177. Kim says:

    It’s good to see that people are starting to talk about this more

  178. LC says:

    Yeah. I can relate….

  179. Kris Labonte says:

    no i cant really relate to any of it

  180. Cheryl H says:

    I can relate to this for sure! It happens and it’s nothing to be embarrassed about

  181. Viv Sluys says:

    Fortunately I do not suffer from LBL but this is pregnancy #4 so we shall see how I hold up!!

  182. elizamatt says:

    I think this is a topic that certainly needs to be talked about as it affects so many women. I feel pretty lucky as I had 7 children am nearly 65 and so far this hasn’t been a problem but I’m pretty sure it will be as I get older.

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